As we
close this series on Drifting, we will look at the "worse case"
scenario. Before we do that please take time to reflect upon the whole reason
for this series. Most children of God do not desire to have broken fellowship
with Him, do not willfully rebel and defy Him. Those that fit that description
would not be helped by this series. The vast majority of believers desire a
close and intimate fellowship with the Lord. There are two main causes why we
do not experience a walk like that. One, which would require a different
series, is just plain laziness. Our fellowship is based upon the same
principles as any relationship.
The "relationship" is based on an objective reality. Like marriage, which is based on a Vow, and no matter how you "feel" you made the Vow and that person is your spouse! I realize "better or worse" does not mean much to many today, but that does not change God's view of it. However, "liking" your spouse is based on day to day, subjective realities! This is the same for our walk with God. Our relationship is based on the objective shed blood of Jesus Christ. If you have placed your trust in His sacrifice and asked Him to forgive you and to make you a child of God, that is done! No matter what you say or do can change that reality!
I will be blunt here - Those that teach that you can do something to lose that relationship are: 1. Denying what God has said! 1 Jn 5:11-13, Eph 4:30, Jn 10:27-28, Rom 8:35-39 - there are so many more - but God is clear - when He makes you His child - that's what you are. 2. Ignorant of the Power of the Shed Blood of Christ! This is beyond the scope of our understanding! When the “Godman” Jesus, sacrificed Himself for all sin, it was complete, total and all encompassing. If you have humbled yourself, realized your works cannot purchase forgiveness of your sins, make you perfect in the Father’s eyes and spend eternity with Him, then from your mind and heart placed your trust on what Jesus did alone to make you a child of God…if you then believe some piddly sin of yours can undo that, you really are ignorant of the Sovereign Power of God.
And I must say here, I find that belief insulting to our Father and especially to Jesus! To say all He did could be undone by something you do, is like slapping Him in the face while on the cross! His sacrifice is supremely powerful compared to any evil any human could do! If you have the Blood of Christ in you and have been washed in it, He “OWNS” you! 1 Cor. 6:19-20 & 7:22-23
The "relationship" is based on an objective reality. Like marriage, which is based on a Vow, and no matter how you "feel" you made the Vow and that person is your spouse! I realize "better or worse" does not mean much to many today, but that does not change God's view of it. However, "liking" your spouse is based on day to day, subjective realities! This is the same for our walk with God. Our relationship is based on the objective shed blood of Jesus Christ. If you have placed your trust in His sacrifice and asked Him to forgive you and to make you a child of God, that is done! No matter what you say or do can change that reality!
I will be blunt here - Those that teach that you can do something to lose that relationship are: 1. Denying what God has said! 1 Jn 5:11-13, Eph 4:30, Jn 10:27-28, Rom 8:35-39 - there are so many more - but God is clear - when He makes you His child - that's what you are. 2. Ignorant of the Power of the Shed Blood of Christ! This is beyond the scope of our understanding! When the “Godman” Jesus, sacrificed Himself for all sin, it was complete, total and all encompassing. If you have humbled yourself, realized your works cannot purchase forgiveness of your sins, make you perfect in the Father’s eyes and spend eternity with Him, then from your mind and heart placed your trust on what Jesus did alone to make you a child of God…if you then believe some piddly sin of yours can undo that, you really are ignorant of the Sovereign Power of God.
And I must say here, I find that belief insulting to our Father and especially to Jesus! To say all He did could be undone by something you do, is like slapping Him in the face while on the cross! His sacrifice is supremely powerful compared to any evil any human could do! If you have the Blood of Christ in you and have been washed in it, He “OWNS” you! 1 Cor. 6:19-20 & 7:22-23
So, if
you have used the free choice with that seed of faith God has placed in all men
(Ecc 3:11 & Rom 1:20) and trusted Christ, you are in an eternal
relationship. However, friendship (fellowship) is another matter. We can
grieve, disappoint, anger and ignore God. Just like any relationship, for
intimacy to exist, both parties must work at it. God does His part…and
since He is perfect, we know if there is a problem we need look no further than
the mirror! This is where the first cause I mentioned takes place, we are lazy
and think great intimacy will just happen. It reminds me of a quote from two
men. Curtis Grant said “Having the world’s
best idea will do you no good unless you act on it”…then
he added a quote from Elbert Hubbard, “People who want
milk shouldn’t sit on a stool in the middle
of a field in hopes that a cow will back up to them.”
Intimacy with God is a “proactive lifestyle, and if you believe touching base with Him once a week…or may I even be bolder, one short moment each day, will fulfill your soul’s need, you will be greatly disappointed. This is why I, as a counselor, deal with so many depressed believers. They want it to just happen, but it will not. A “Living God” requires “living with” which involves our whole day. I connect with my wife often everyday. The marriages I see that are in trouble basically have a “good morning” and “good night” approach! How can any kind of closeness happen that way?
Intimacy with God is a “proactive lifestyle, and if you believe touching base with Him once a week…or may I even be bolder, one short moment each day, will fulfill your soul’s need, you will be greatly disappointed. This is why I, as a counselor, deal with so many depressed believers. They want it to just happen, but it will not. A “Living God” requires “living with” which involves our whole day. I connect with my wife often everyday. The marriages I see that are in trouble basically have a “good morning” and “good night” approach! How can any kind of closeness happen that way?
The
second cause is the one we are looking at: Drifting. We are proactively seeking
to be close to God, but after a while habits…even good ones…become
exactly that – HABITS! We do what we do because that is what we have
always done! Before you know it, we are not consciously connecting with God, we
are doing the rituals, but there is no substance. We have moved from “relationship”
living to “religiosity” existence. We have ceased “being”
the Church and now “go to”
Church, which is not CHRISTianity but churchianity! Self examination is
essential to guard us from drifting.
Here are
the 9 conditions we have looked at:
•
First Warning #1 Laziness = Lack of Discipline!
▪ § Test yourself: Do you only do the
difficult or inconvenient when forced to, or do you choose to do the difficult,
i.e. Memorize Scripture, Read through the Bible, Fast, etc. just to stay in
shape?
•
Second Warning #2 Boredom = Lack of Purpose!
▪ § Test yourself: Are you Proactive in
your walk with God? Do you seek from Him on your own to create new ways to grow
and serve Christ?
•
Third - Warning #3 Restlessness = Lack of Contentment!
▪ § Test yourself: How do you handle
solitude? If you are alone for a period of time, can you use it profitably, or
do you just become “antsy” and have to find anything to do to distract
yourself?
•
Fourth - Strong Current #4 Pride = Lack of REAL
Esteem!
▪ § Test yourself: How many of those around
you know that you need Christ and have no joy in your life without Him? Are you
embarrassed to talk about your dependence on Christ for everything in your
life?
•
Fifth - Strong Current #5 Self Pity = Lack of
Control over Circumstances!
▪ § Test yourself: When someone does not
fulfill a promise they made to you, how long does it take for you to get over
it? When someone has wronged you, how difficult is it for you to forgive them?
•
Sixth - Strong Current #6 Pigging Out = Lack of
Control of Appetites!
▪ § Test yourself: Which do you hunger for
more, that which pleases God or that which pleases you? Do you seek to make
other feel good or your self?
•
Seventh – Danger Zone #7 Murmuring = Lack of
Joy!
▪ § Test yourself: Starting with where you
are right now and what you have right now, what’s your “beef” with God? How
much time to you spend thanking God for here and now versus wishing things were
better?
•
Eighth – Danger Zone #8 Hatred of being corrected = Lack of
Fear!
▪ § Test yourself: Are you accountable to
anyone in your life? Are you uncomfortable when those in the Body of Christ, that
are authority figures appointed by God, try to get close to you?
•
Ninth – Danger Zone #9 Bitterness = Lack
of Compassion!
▪ § Test yourself: How long does it take
for you to decide you will forgive someone? How many people can you remember
that have hurt you easily? How many habitual sins are in your life so deep that
you couldn't stop them even if you wanted to?
When your
life is so far from God that you no longer can hear His voice, you have left
the current and have shipwrecked on the rocks! Your faith is deaf and blind,
not being able to discern anymore, and it exposes in your life a Lack of
Conviction. This is a terrible
situation for any child of God and NEVER has to happen if we remain diligent to
examine our lives.
Hebrews 3:12–13 Be
careful then, dear brothers and sisters. Make sure that your own hearts are not
evil and unbelieving, turning you away from the living God. You must
warn each other every day, while it is still “today,” so that none of you will
be deceived by sin and hardened against God.
This heart condition leads a person to take life and God’s
grace for granted! Their approach to life is presumption and they heed not wise
words:
Proverbs 27:1 Do not boast about tomorrow,
for you do not know what a day may bring forth.
1 Timothy 1:18–19
This command I entrust to you, Timothy…fight the good fight, keeping faith and
a good conscience, which some have rejected and suffered shipwreck in regard to
their faith.
Mark 3:5 He looked around at them angrily and was deeply saddened by their hard hearts. Then he said to the man, "Hold out your hand." So the man held out his hand, and it was restored
Mark 16:14 Afterward He appeared to the eleven themselves
as they were reclining at the table; and He reproached them for their unbelief
and hardness of heart, because they had not believed those who had seen Him
after He had risen.
When there is no outward evidence between the life of a “child
of God”
and a “child
of the world” this individual will never respond to God’s
voice again! Hebrews 6 addresses this.
It is “impossible” for them to repent. Why? Because they cannot hear God anymore. Some say this must be an unbeliever, but their bias toward that position exposes their unwillingness to deal with the Scriptures that show believers that have eternal life, but have no investment due to the unfruitful life they lived after entering into Salvation. Paul speaks several places about this, including the young man in 1 Cor. and especially the judgment seat for believers in 1 Cor. 3. No rewards – which translates into no evidence in the life, yet still in heaven – “but he himself will be saved, yet so as through fire.” John called it the “sin unto death” 1 Jn. 5
It is “impossible” for them to repent. Why? Because they cannot hear God anymore. Some say this must be an unbeliever, but their bias toward that position exposes their unwillingness to deal with the Scriptures that show believers that have eternal life, but have no investment due to the unfruitful life they lived after entering into Salvation. Paul speaks several places about this, including the young man in 1 Cor. and especially the judgment seat for believers in 1 Cor. 3. No rewards – which translates into no evidence in the life, yet still in heaven – “but he himself will be saved, yet so as through fire.” John called it the “sin unto death” 1 Jn. 5
What to do? The most effective way to remain alert to Drifting is to be
involved in small group discipleship. Please! Spare me the excuses, everyone is
busy, everyone doesn’t know anybody, no has a place to meet, and no one can figure
out how to do it! Sorry for my sarcasm, but I grow tired of the reasons. I have
heard them all and at times been tempted to say most of them! Getting together
1 time a week with friends and discuss how our life is going does not require a
Rocket Scientist! Pray and Do It! You will grow and experience an deeper intimacy
with the Lord in a very short time.
Next week I will launch my webpage, and on it I have included a resource tab, where I will continue to place tools for discipleship that are down loadable, to encourage the Body of Christ to take ownership of their walk with God. When I launch I will put on FB and this Devo site.
Next week I will launch my webpage, and on it I have included a resource tab, where I will continue to place tools for discipleship that are down loadable, to encourage the Body of Christ to take ownership of their walk with God. When I launch I will put on FB and this Devo site.
Stay close, Don’t DRIFT!
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