In the last Devo, I felt the need to deal with the death of a
very famous person to challenge all of us to consider how we deal with our
emotions. The dialogue for the most part that ensued was beneficial and I
believe is needed. I hope it continues, however, it also brought to the surface
some real issues that I believe need to be addressed.
As I stated I have read quite a few articles about Robin
Williams, his death, the cause and even where he is eternally. For many years I
have listened and watched as many in the church make some pretty unbelievable
statements…never considering, first, what truth do they have to support it
and second, how much damage they may be doing.
Some have made
statements about where Robin Williams is now that his spirit has left his body.
This amazes me! If the Scripture has taught us anything, God and God alone is
responsible for that and He is the only One that really knows where someone’s
eternal destination is.
I am a very narrow
person because Scriptures demands that – there is only one way to a
relationship with our Maker.
John 14:6 Jesus
said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the
Father but through Me.
The Truth states that
only through Christ can a person enter into an eternal relationship with God.
However, nowhere do the Scriptures state that we are privy to the information
of who is one of God’s or not. Yes, we see fruit in the life that leads to a
conclusion, but that is all it is, our conclusion! If the fruit in their life
is not clearly of a child of God we should pray for them to know Christ
intimately. However, when we make a pronouncement of where anyone is eternally
we need to pull out our ID and see if the name on it is spelled GOD. He alone
knows the real heart, the real person and the end destination. Even Jesus
taught on this:
Matthew 13:26–30 “But when the wheat sprouted and bore
grain, then the tares became evident also. “The slaves of the landowner came
and said to him, ‘Sir, did you not sow good seed in your field? How then does
it have tares?’ “And he said to them, ‘An enemy has done this!’ The slaves said
to him, ‘Do you want us, then, to go and gather them up?’ “But he said, ‘No;
for while you are gathering up the tares, you may uproot the wheat with them. ‘Allow
both to grow together until the harvest; and in the time of the harvest I will
say to the reapers, “First gather up the tares and bind them in bundles to burn
them up; but gather the wheat into my barn.” ’ ”
Every person, even the famous, was created in God’s
image and they answer to Him alone. We are not that judge and should spend our
time and energy caring for those that have suffered the loss and leave the
judgment to the One that has that right.
James 4:12 There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the One
who is able to save and to destroy; but who are you who judge your neighbor?
Matthew 7:1–2 “Do not judge so that you will not be
judged. 2 “For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard
of measure, it will be measured to you.
I have been astounded by how many are so sure where Robin
Williams is! I am positive the family of the thief on the cross was sure he is
separated from God for eternity. Most likely they were not at the cross, due to
the shame they felt, and they did not know that an ever loving God rescued him
at the last moment.
The other aspect that this whole tragedy has brought to the
front is the issue of mental disorders. This is likely the most difficult
issue the church has been facing for quite some time now. I will attempt no
direct answer to any direct disorder. What I want to do is challenge the
hurried judgment I see to label something so complicated as this. Also the “cliché”
answers thrown to issues that cannot be dealt with through simplistic and I am
sad to say flippant responses by the family of God. One of the greatest
disservices the “health, wealth” folks have propagated is that God’s
children have a bubble around themselves and none of this fallen world will
touch them. It breaks my heart because I have had to sit and cry, hold hands, explain
and guide with Scriptures those that have cancer, a still born, a deterioration
of physical or mental health, that it is not a lack of faith, or that God is
punishing them.
For far too long some in the church blamed all sickness on
individual personal sin and if not healed it was because the person lacked
faith. Even Jesus had to deal with this:
John 9:1–3 As He passed by, He saw
a man blind from birth. And His disciples asked
Him, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he would be born blind?”
Jesus answered, “It was neither that this man sinned, nor his parents; but it was so that the works of God might be displayed
in him.
Interesting, it was God that had this man born blind, for His
purpose. The “health wealthers” can’t deal with this because they have yet to
understand what it means when you say the word GOD! That’s why in their prayers
they tell God what He is going to do and claim their will, not His will!
It seems now though, we have challenged that with Scriptures
enough, that those that are honest about the Word of God see that because we
live in a fallen world, all of us are open to the ills that sin brought.
Sadly, we still seem to be very behind when dealing with mental illnesses. Bipolar, Manic Depressive, Clinical Depression, Schizophrenia and others are spoken of as problems of the will, or faith. We meet someone that is not emotionally down, but drowning in the confusion of Depression and we tell them to “take 2 verses and call me in the morning!”
Sadly, we still seem to be very behind when dealing with mental illnesses. Bipolar, Manic Depressive, Clinical Depression, Schizophrenia and others are spoken of as problems of the will, or faith. We meet someone that is not emotionally down, but drowning in the confusion of Depression and we tell them to “take 2 verses and call me in the morning!”
If someone came to you with Strep throat would you tell them to
trust Jesus only, or would you also recommend they get some medicine. Is not
God the One that allowed the discovery of medicine?
Believe me, as a Pastor I know the stress here, and I have not
found the answer, yet I do know it is not as simple as “all you need is Jesus.”
WAIT a minute Nate…are you saying that Jesus is not enough?
NO! I am not saying that. Let me repeat for those that do not read
carefully, NO I am not saying that.
Jesus is enough, if that is all He requires. No cancer, no
broken family, no mental disorder can stop Jesus from making everything perfect
in a millisecond, if that is what He wants. However, Scripture and history
shows that God more often then not desires us to take the road of grace and
growth. There is so much proof now that our complex bodies can be affected in
so many ways, including mental issues that cannot be cured by a heart to heart
or prayer unless Christ makes it so. If we can understand that Paul did not
tell Timothy to only pray but get some help for his condition:
1 Timothy 5:23 No
longer drink water exclusively, but use a
little wine for the sake of your stomach and your frequent ailments.
Then why do we not see, that when it comes to conditions of the
mind that may be medically caused, that we should be careful and loving to take
the same approach. There are good men and women, brothers and sisters in Christ
that have taken the time and given the discipline needed to study and learn
about these conditions. There are no easy answers, but there are answers.
I have studied these issues for years, informally and in formal
settings in my post grad work. The man that led the classes has a Th.M. in
Theology, a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and is a Licensed Clinical
Professional. When he states that so much is not known and that anyone trying
to help should move slowly and carefully, it should make all pause before they
throw out their diagnosis of these issues based on ignorance.
We owe it to anyone that suffers from complicated conditions of
the mind the love that Jesus would extend. We need to understand that it is not
our job to have all the answers, so we should not take guesses! Those guesses
do a lot of harm to Christians that are trying so hard to “feel”
normal but are told they are not because, “they really don’t want to be” or “they
have poor faith” or “they are in deep sin.”
Each time I was in the USA I taught classes in a Bible College
and Seminary. One young man I had as a freshman, senior and then in Seminary.
He was one of the best students I had ever experienced; his spirit made me feel
like a gross sinner and his love for Jesus was phenomenal. In his 20’s he
had memorized the first 40 chapters of Genesis. He also was bipolar. As we sat
at lunch he was considering stopping his meds, because he felt it showed a lack
of faith. I challenged him to consider that Christ was taking him on a path
that I did not understand, but his doctors had clearly helped him. He agreed,
but questioned why did he need the help. I told him only God could illuminate
him on that, but that the journey he was on was glorifying Christ and causing
him to grow.
I told him I would pray for him. I then left to be at my father’s side as he died. While I was there I got news that this lovely young man, went off his meds, became paranoid and jumped into a coal train to escape what he thought was chasing him. He was found lifeless under tons of coal when the train was emptied.
I told him I would pray for him. I then left to be at my father’s side as he died. While I was there I got news that this lovely young man, went off his meds, became paranoid and jumped into a coal train to escape what he thought was chasing him. He was found lifeless under tons of coal when the train was emptied.
Some in this world will cast out words quickly to state what
they think was the REAL problem. Most times the words will not be measured,
will be shallow and would harm individuals that walk this same path.
I have been led by the Lord, to not jump to any conclusion when
I know so very little. I will help anyone I can with heart to hearts, but when
I see the problem is deeper, I will refer to good professionals that can help
at a level I cannot. I will also always beseech my Lord to intervene personally
and miraculously heal, but I refuse to judge that person faithless or my Lord
callous if He chooses to have His child walk a difficult path. I know neither
His plans nor His ways. My goal is to only minister to the one that is
suffering.
The wisdom found in Scripture is very helpful. None of us
should rush to claim understanding of issues that only He can understand!
1 Corinthians 4:5
Therefore do not go on passing judgment before the time, but wait until the Lord comes who will both bring to light
the things hidden in the darkness and disclose the motives of men’s hearts; and then each man’s praise will come
to him from God.
Thanks, Pastor Nate, for bringing the issue of depression into proper perspective. Right perspective = right attitude toward those struggling with the condition. And the right attitude is spelled C-O-M-P-A-S-S-I-O-N.
ReplyDeleteAmen!
DeleteThanks Pastor Nate! I got the amswers to my questions and i've learned a lot! God Bless!
ReplyDeleteJUDGED BY THE WORD OF MEN? BY STEVE FINNELL
ReplyDeleteIf men decide who shall enter heaven, will that hold up on judgement day?
MEN JUDGE: Proverbs 14:12 There is a way that seems right to a man. But its end is the way of death. (NKJV)
JESUS JUDGES: John 12: 48 "He who rejects Me, and does not receive My words, has that which judges him--the word that I have spoken will judge him in the last day.(NKJV)
MEN JUDGE: Men say you can have everlasting life even if you reject Jesus as the Son of God; because there are multiple ways to get to heaven.
JESUS JUDGES: John 3:16-18......."He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. (NKJV)
MEN JUDGE: Men say if a man believe in Jesus, but dies before he has time to be baptized he will still be saved.
JESUS JUDGES: Mark 16:16 .....and is baptized will be saved...(NKJV)
When judgement arrives the words of men will not send one person to heaven. Why would anyone trust the opinions of men to secure their place in heaven. No man has nor will they have the authority to judge any ones salvation.
When judgement day comes we will all be judged by the words of Jesus. Judgement comes from Jesus. Believe His words.
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