The three letter word that is the real problem – SIN

Proverbs 7:24-27 So now, sons, listen to me, and pay attention to the words I speak. Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways – do not wander into her pathways; for she has brought down many fatally wounded, and all those she has slain are many. Her house is the way to the grave,  going down to the chambers of death.

Proverbs 7 is a tremendous in-depth dissection on how sin works and the cost involved. The example chosen by the Lord is a foolish young man, and an immoral wife. However, the principle communicated here extends to all sin. In closing this section look at the two warnings that are given. "Do not let your heart turn aside" and "do not wander". Both are separate actions, yet still connected in essence. The first action deals with discipline, the second deals with focus; the aspect of a “lack” connects both. The reason our heart turns aside is because we fail to discipline our life in a way that keeps our heart close to God. If this foolish young man had been disciplined in his life he would not have entertained the thoughts of sin he did. The longer he entertained those thoughts the more acceptable the sin became to him. This is exactly the warning James gives us:

Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He Himself does not tempt anyone. ¹⁴ But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. ¹⁵ Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death. ¹⁶ Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren. James 1:13–16

When we allow thoughts to continue to cook in our mind the conception of sin is right at the door. Paul tells us to discipline our thoughts. When a sinful thought comes to our mind if we discipline our mind to reject it, our heart will not turn aside.

We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ 2 Corinthians 10:5 

Secondly, when we lack focus we will wander. Try walking with your eyes closed, you will wander and may end up wandering into a dangerous situation. If this young man had been focused on walking close to God his feet would have moved in the opposite direction of where the immoral woman was. When we lack focus on what we want our life to mean and count for, we may awaken only after we have wandered into a circumstance or a mistake that never needed to happen. Wisdom is beseeching us to not lack discipline or focus. 

Lastly Wisdom challenges the reality of what we perceive the sin to be. In this example the young man thinks the woman's house is the place for pleasure, but whatever the sin, the lack of reality exists. “Fame will make me happy” ; “money will solve my problems”; “marriage will keep me from being lonely”; - the right job, the trophy, or the designer home...all of these things, neutral in themselves, can become sin when they become the god we pursue. All...all promise a false reality and even become, like the house of the immoral woman, the way to the grave. The quality that makes existence "life" will be separated (death) from us. All things, relationships, possessions and positions only bring quality to our life when these things have been given to us by our Lord because we First sought Him!

“For this reason I say to you, do not be worried about your life, as to what you will eat or what you will drink; nor for your body, as to what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? ²⁶ “Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they? ²⁷ “And who of you by being worried can add a single hour to his life? ²⁸ “And why are you worried about clothing? Observe how the lilies of the field grow; they do not toil nor do they spin, ²⁹ yet I say to you that not even Solomon in all his glory clothed himself like one of these. ³⁰ “But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which is alive today and tomorrow is thrown into the furnace, will He not much more clothe you? You of little faith! ³¹ “Do not worry then, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear for clothing?’ ³² “For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. ³³ “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Matthew 6:25–33